You have visions you're here to create. You're looking to build more - in a way that doesn't require you to abandon your truest presence in the process.

If that's where you are, I understand. Because that was me.

You're not looking to want less. 

Maybe you've had a moment where you realized you missed something that mattered. A birthday you couldn't attend. A conversation you weren't present for. A person who helped you that you barely acknowledged because "more important" people or things were demanding your attention.

You don't say it out loud because you're "supposed to be grateful." Because you worked so hard to get here. Because everyone thinks you have it all figured out. You're the one people can rely on to carry the load.

But you know the truth: this version of success is costing you something you can't keep giving.


You're succeeding by every external measure. And in all honesty, something essential in you is going unfed.

But inside, there's a quiet knowing. A persistent hum that something isn't quite right.

You're sitting at family gatherings, but your mind is somewhere else. You're waking up at 3am with work and ideas spinning through your head. You're achieving milestone after milestone, yet the fulfillment you thought would come with success feels just out of reach. Like you can't quite get there to feel it.

The pressure is constant. The to-do list feels endless. There's always someone who needs you, something that can't wait, something more you “should” be doing, another decision riding on your shoulders.


The kind of success that looks effortless from the outside - the business, the influence, the life others aspire to.

You've built something extraordinary.

The world told me this was just what excellence required. This is what it takes to be a #girlboss…and “have it all.”

I went back to the heart of Silicon Valley and stepped into even bigger rooms - working alongside billionaires, futurists, and global thought leaders shaping the future of innovation. I knew how to operate in high-stakes environments, deliver world-class results, and navigate spaces most people spend their entire careers trying to access.

I was achieving everything I thought I wanted…and I wasn't free to truly enjoy any of it.

Living off 4+ coffees a day. My gut unable to digest anything - food, emotions, the reality of what my life had become. Sitting at family gatherings with my body there but my mind somewhere else, feeling the constant hum of pressure.

But knowing something intellectually and living it are different things.

I was grieving the hugs. The belly laughs. The inside jokes and simple, present moments we'd shared. Those were what actually mattered.

A year later, I booked a one-way ticket to Bali to grieve. To come home to myself. To finally question what I was building my life toward. Who in the world was I without the roles and identities I'd carried - the golden child, the overachiever, the responsible one?

It was during that time I discovered the power of a simple morning writing ritual and was introduced to the Gene Keys - a system that would give me the language to truly know my truth when I needed it most.


I'll never forget the moment I sat down to write his legacy and realized something that would haunt me for years: I wasn't grieving his achievements. 

Years before I reached the rooms I dreamed of being in, I lost my father unexpectedly.

the real shift came when I chose simple rituals and devotion

The next morning, I returned to the morning writing ritual I'd discovered in Bali.

prioritizing people on pedestals because that's "what you do" at this level.

I didn't like that version of myself.









The technician could only come during the workday so I ran home to let him in and spent the entire time on calls with seemingly "important" people.

I couldn't even be present enough to answer his questions. When he left, I barely said thank you.

When I finally hung up, I realized: I'd just dismissed a man who actually showed up to help me while

The technician could only come during the workday so I ran home to let him in and spent the entire time on calls with seemingly "important" people.

I couldn't even be present enough to answer his questions. When he left, I barely said thank you.

When I finally hung up, I realized: I'd just dismissed a man who actually showed up to help me while prioritizing people on pedestals because that's "what you do" at this level.

I didn't like that version of myself.

I'd just moved and needed to install internet.

Then came the moment I couldn't ignore.

To bring my body back to health, to recalibrate, to finally invest in support and stop trying to carry everything alone. I knew I wanted to be an entrepreneur, but I also knew I couldn't build something sustainable from a depleted place.


And in that same season, I also chose to take another risk - moving across the world to a place I'd never been to, for love.

I took seven months to focus on stillness first. 

When I connected with my Gene Keys again, I saw so clearly that I'd been living someone else's definition of success, chasing achievement to prove I was enough rather than creating from the truth of who I actually am.

It was in these moments I finally heard my soul's voice and made the choice to leave. The salary. The status. The vesting interest. The access. The "shiny opportunity" everyone said would lead somewhere extraordinary.

Honestly, it wasn't easy. People thought I was making a mistake and I had that part of my mind whispering, "what if I regret it?"

But my soul knew. And I finally chose to follow it.

And then I finally wrote the truth onto the paper: I'm drowning. This isn't me.

I found myself scribbling furiously, trying to name the lie I was telling myself.

Convinced I needed a YouTube channel, a podcast, all the things. Chasing the next million-dollar strategy, the next "should."

I thought I needed a better strategy. What I actually needed was to know what was MINE. Truly know my identity and embody it.

Because here's what I discovered: you can have a hundred shiny opportunities, but if you're making decisions from ego, from roles that were never really yours, from the part still trying to prove you're enough - you'll build something that costs you.

Fixating on funnels. Trying to be on every platform.

When I stepped into entrepreneurship, I fell into familiar traps.

circa Paris 2023

That strategy and soul don't have to be separate. That the journey itself gets to feel lit up, not just the destination.








More than anything, I learned that my ambition doesn't require abandoning myself.

Over the past six years, I've built a business working with some of the most accomplished women in the world - multi-seven-figure entrepreneurs, visionary founders, leaders navigating complexity most people never touch. Not because I have all the strategic answers, but because I understand the decisions they're making. I've been in those rooms. I know what it takes to operate at that level.

And I know how to help them discern what's actually theirs.

That seemingly wild choice to move abroad for love led me to marry my best friend and greatest expander in life - a man deeply committed to his own mission. We've built a sacred partnership grounded in soul alignment and honoring our values first.

We hold quarterly leadership retreats where we check our soul alignment and make conscious choices about how we're building. Every Sunday, we map our weeks together so we understand what each other is carrying and where we need to protect presence. We come back to: does this feel true for us? Not just strategically smart, but aligned with how we're here to grow on a soul level.


We hold quarterly leadership retreats where we check our soul alignment and make conscious choices about how we're building. Every Sunday, we map our weeks together so we understand what each other is carrying and where we need to protect presence. We come back to: does this feel true for us? Not just strategically smart, but aligned with how we're here to grow on a soul level.









Over the past six years, I've built a business working with some of the most accomplished women in the world - multi-seven-figure entrepreneurs, visionary founders, leaders navigating complexity most people never touch. Not because I have all the strategic answers, but because I understand the decisions they're making. I've been in those rooms. I know what it takes to operate at that level.

And I know how to help them discern what's actually theirs.

That seemingly wild choice to move abroad for love led me to marry my best friend and greatest expander in life - a man deeply committed to his own mission. We've built a sacred partnership grounded in soul alignment and honoring our values first.

I stopped trying to be everything and started honoring what was uniquely mine. I refined down to the core - the pearl of who I actually am.

When I cleared the distortion and connected to my essence, everything shifted.

the ocean, always

capturing unexpected moments

wanderlust

The Louvre

my one true love

You get to build the vision AND you get to feel free enough to appreciate the abundance you're creating.

This work is about discovering you were never meant to choose between the big life and the present life.

The ones standing at a crossroads with ten different opportunities, needing someone who can help them feel into which one their soul actually chooses.

They come to me because they're done with more strategy. They're craving someone who understands both the strategic and the energetic - who can help them see what's actually moving beneath the surface. Who can help them know what they want on a soul level, not just what looks good on paper.

Because the real question isn't "What's the smart move?" It's "What's actually mine to create? What is the best way for me to channel my greatest gifts?"

And when you make decisions from that place - when strategy meets soul, when you clear the distortion and connect to your essence - that's where everything clicks into place.

The ones building extraordinary legacies who've been told they have to choose between their ambition and their life.

Now I guide world-class women through this same discovery.

This is what I bring to every woman I work with: the ability to help them discern what's actually theirs, clear what's in the way, and build from a place where strategy and soul finally meet.

The women building the most extraordinary legacies aren't sacrificing their lives to do it. They've discovered that when you lead from alignment, expansion becomes natural. Easeful. The kind that actually sustains.

Presence and ambition aren't opposites. They're partners.

Endless expansion for expansion's sake is exhausting. Real power comes from refinement - finding the pearl of who you actually are and devoting yourself to that expression. Not what looks impressive. What's true.

You don't need to be everything. You need to honor what's uniquely yours.

The answer to "what's next" isn't out there. It's within you, underneath the layers of ego, conditioning, roles you've outgrown, and the part that's still trying to prove you're enough. When you clear the field, the knowing becomes obvious.

Your soul already knows. The work is clearing the distortion.

You can optimize every funnel, master every framework, and still build something that depletes you. Because if the foundation isn't aligned with your essence, no amount of strategic brilliance will make it feel right.

Strategy without soul is just sophisticated suffering.

Most world-class women don't need help with execution. They need help knowing what's actually theirs to execute.

Through my own journey - and now through this work with accomplished women across the globe - I've come to understand a few essential truths:

The problem was never lack of strategy. It was a lack of discernment.

WHAT I’VE DISCOVERED

You're not getting a program or a formula. You're getting a partnership with someone who understands the complexity of what you're holding and can help you navigate it with both precision and presence.

This is intimate, bespoke work.

WORKING TOGETHER

~ The first exhale you've taken in years. Permission to finally be honest about what's working and what's costing you - without having to perform, prove, or pretend you have it all figured out.

~ Being seen in your full brilliance AND lovingly challenged into your next edge. This is the rare space where your excellence is honored and your growth is held with equal devotion.

~ Finally having language for what you've been sensing but couldn't name. Understanding your unique design - your Gene Keys, your energetic patterns, the soul-level clarity that makes decision-making feel obvious instead of agonizing.

~ Reclaiming your time, your energy, your sovereignty. Learning to say no to what's not yours and yes to what lights you up - not from a place of scarcity, but from deep trust in your essence.

~ Building rituals that actually sustain you. Not more to-dos, but sacred structures that ground you, clarify what matters, and create the energetic hygiene needed to lead at your level without depletion.

Here's what working together feels like:

→ Clarity on what's actually yours to build - not what looks good, but what your soul genuinely desires.

→ Energetic alignment that makes expansion feel easeful instead of effortful.

→ Rituals woven into your daily life that keep you connected to yourself, no matter how big you're building.

→ The capacity to hold both your ambition and your presence - where the journey feels as rich as the destination.

What shifts:

This isn't about doing more. It's about finally feeling free in the life you're creating.

A seven-figure entrepreneur kept getting the same strategic advice: start a podcast. It was "the best next move." But it wasn't feeling exciting - it felt heavy. It was weighing her down and keeping her from what would actually leverage her strengths.

When we looked at her visionary blueprint, the answer was clear: the podcast wasn't hers. We identified what was and the relief was immediate. Also, by not pursuing what everyone said she "should" do, she saved hundreds of thousands of dollars and years of energy. Instead, she doubled down on what's uniquely hers. Her business expanded. Her energy returned.

Another client was negotiating a major opportunity. In the past, she would have undervalued herself and said yes immediately - then found herself overgiving, stretching past capacity, and most likely resentful. This time, we paused. What would actually make this worth it for her? What's her true value? What would create a full-body yes with no wobble? She got honest and named her terms. 

This is the work. Discerning what's actually yours - and having the clarity and courage to claim it.


The women I work with arrive at similar crossroads.

My Mission Code

This code speaks of moving from compromise to competence to the ultimate state of bounteousness. For me, this has meant learning to stop dimming myself and trying to fit into what others expect, instead deepening into integrity with my truth, honoring the value I bring, and celebrating the bounty my gifts create.

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My Mission Code

My Money Code

My Meaning code

My Magnetism Code

My Mission Code

My Money Code 

This code moves from confusion to imagination to illumination. For me, it’s a reminder that the more I trust my imagination and follow the sparks of inspiration that come from that place, the more money and resources arrive with ease…far beyond what my mind could have strategized.

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My Money Code

My Meaning Code

My Magnetism Code

My Meaning Code

This code speaks of moving from victimization into freedom. For me, it’s a reminder that fulfillment comes when I follow the path of freedom. A devotion to live as I truly am…free to follow the paths that call me, free to create in ways that light me up, and free to love in the most authentic expression of my heart.

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My Meaning Code

My Money Code

My Mission Code

My Magnetism Code

My Mission Code

My Money Code

My Meaning Code

My Magnetism Code

This code moves from conflict into revolution and ultimately, rebirth. For me, it's a reminder that my truest magnetism comes when I align with those who share my values and devotion to truth…attracting souls who are here to transform the world through authentic connection rather than division.

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My Magnetism Code

These are the four codes that keep me grounded in who I am - as I lead, as I expand, as I navigate the complexity of building a life that matters.

YOUR UNIQUE BLUEPRINT

This is what I help you discover: not my codes, but yours. Not my path, but the one that's been waiting for you to claim it.

High-stakes decisions that used to take months of deliberation become obvious. The constant stress of "am I making the right choice?" dissolves. They save time, money, and energy because they're no longer trying ten different paths - they're devoted to the one that's actually theirs.

Your life becomes more spacious. More intimate. More devotional. Because you're finally building around what matters most - placing it at the center, at the heartbeat of it all.

I've watched this collapse time for my clients over and over again.

And when you know yourself that deeply, you finally have language. Language to communicate who you are to yourself - and therefore to your partner, your team, your clients, everyone who matters. You stop second-guessing. You stop needing external validation. You trust your knowing.




Who you actually are. What you genuinely value. What you truly want.

Not what you think you should want. Not what looks impressive. What's yours.



The gift of knowing your own design - your unique codes, your soul's blueprint - is that everything becomes clearer.

We live in a world that tells us there's one way to lead, one path to success, one formula that works for everyone. Cookie-cutter. One-size-fits-all.

But you didn't come here to be like everyone else.


These are mine. Yours will be entirely different.

But here's what I want you to understand:

What My Clients Say

Women's Empowerment & Liberation Coach

Alexia has this incredible way of seeing the very best version of you—the one you maybe can’t even see yourself—and then holding you to it in such a steady, unwavering way that you just... become it.

Lucy Maeve

BBC East Africa Bureau, Technical Supervisor

Everyone needs Alexia’s wisdom and positive spirit in their life. One of my biggest takeaways was that being a good leader starts with understanding and honoring my uniqueness.

Faith Mumo

The version of you that's been performing, proving, sacrificing - she got you here. Honor her. Thank her. And know that what's calling you forward requires something different.

You've already done the building. You’ve arrived.

Now you're ready to lead from the truth of your soul, not your effort.

The world told you to choose: ambition or presence. Build big or savor your life. That choice is a lie.

AN INVITATION

This is the work I'm devoted to. And if you're ready, I'm here to walk it with you.

You don't have to choose between the big life and the present life.

You don't have to abandon yourself to expand.

You don't have to keep going the way you always have just because it's worked.

You get to build something extraordinary AND feel free enough to savor it.

Not someday. Now.

This is your permission slip:

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